One of the most awkward parts about going on a first date is the possibility of there being that awkward silence. This is the time when two people who hardly know each other run out of pleasant comments and have nothing to really say to each other. For most people this type of silence is embarrassing and awkward.
Luckily, there are things you can do to avoid the awkward silence that often happens on first dates.
Be an Active Listener and Talker
Silence often is a result of not listening or being engaged in what the other person is saying. On first dates people tend to try to talk all about themselves and rarely listen to the other person. To avoid silences try to be an active listener and engage the other in conversation. Ask them questions and keep them talking.
Know the Person Before the Date
Try to get to know the person a little before the date. Get an idea for what hobbies they enjoy, vacation hotspots, interests and other things you can use to keep a conversation going. While you don’t have to study these in depth, having a general idea will help you keep the conversation going and will give you something to talk about when the conversation starts to lag.
Keep First Dates Short
Long first dates can lead to awkward silences. Try to keep your first date short as this will allow you to talk to each other without having to spend hours engaging in conversation.
Following these tips will help you avoid those awkward silences that happen on first dates.
